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Do you feel like the walls are closing in on you? Do you feel like circumstances, beyond your control, are blocking you in and the floor might give out below you? We all have moments where we can’t help but worry, but that doesn’t really help us a situation. My favorite quote about worry is;

“Worry is like a rocking chair: it gives you something to do but never gets you anywhere”

― Erma Bombeck

Now, to be fair – I have heard this credited to Erma Bombeck (a favorite of mine!) but I’ve also seen it credited to Glenn Turner. Whoever first said it, this has really stuck with me because it’s a good reminder that the worry cycle really gets you nowhere.

When you notice yourself falling into the worry cycle, change things around and Focus on Yourself. Taking time to focus on things that are going on in your life will help to ground you and allow you to take actionable steps to get yourself in a more positive position.

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Ways to Focus on Yourself

  • Food – Have you given your body some good, healthy food in the last few hours? Taking time to snack on nuts, veggies, or fruits can help your body to get back to functioning properly.
  • Drink – Dehydration occurs when you are using more fluid in your body than you are taking in. If you don’t have enough fluid in your body, your organs are going to struggle. Take some time to enjoy a glass of water and see the change that it can make.
  • Plants – Did you know that being in the presence of plants can lower the human stress levels? Studies have shown that actively caring for plants calms the autonomic nervous system and lowers blood pressure. So take some time to walk in a garden. Invite a houseplant into your home and focus on yourself by enjoying a living thing.
  • Pets – While we are talking about living things, taking time to interact with a pet is also going to help you focus your energy in a positive way. Taking 5 minutes to sit down and pet a dog or cat can even your breathing, and bring your blood pressure down. Sitting in front of an aquarium of tropical fish can have the same calming effect as you watch their actions gliding through the water. Don’t have a pet, look to your local pet store and enjoy some time watching the animals. You might just meet your next best friend!
  • Listen – Stop and take a moment to listen to something that is going to help or inspire you. I love to listen to nature sounds. Check out Dan Gibson’s Solitudes collection. There are recordings of just nature sounds (waves, thunder, sounds of the meadow etc.) and there are recordings of nature sounds combined with music. Here is a YouTube link to give you an idea
  • Move – One of the best ways to focus on yourself is taking part in exercise and concentrating on how your body is moving. This can be anything you like to do; yoga, taking a run, walking the dog, playing in a team sport or just gentle stretching.

There are lots of ways to focus on yourself. If you have any additional suggestions, please leave them in the comments below. All of us deserve to best life possible!

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  1. Some great ideas here, thank you for sharing. I also like journalling and writing my answered prayers down and reflecting upon them as a way to assure myself that God has answered prayers before and He can do it again.

    1. drriehl says:

      Writing in a journal is a great suggestion! Thanks for suggesting that.

  2. I love the quote about not getting anywhere in a rocking chair. Very true!

    1. drriehl says:

      Very true and easy to imagine the act of going nowhere.

  3. Yes!! So much of the time when we are emotionally out of sorts our basic needs are just not being met. Exercise, eating, taking a break, etc. can make a world of difference. This is a great list.

    1. drriehl says:

      Not having our needs met is a great way of putting it!

  4. Exercise is the very best way for me to focus on myself! Especially if it’s outdoors in the sunshine. These are all fabulous tips!

    1. drriehl says:

      Yes! Getting out in the sunshine is a great way to regroup.

  5. My favorite way to focus on myself is to put everything to the side and take a nap! Sometimes, Mama just needs to rest.

    1. drriehl says:

      Great thinking! You deserve it.

  6. For me, 2019 is the year of the Mama. Mama needs to start taking care of herself as well. I’ve let my health go and actually needed surgery at the end of last year, so it’s time to make a change.

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